She is a flower, but also the sun that lets her bloom... - Christian Starl
Read this quote today which reminded me of a friend I have lost touch with for. She was a smart, ambitious, well-educated young woman. She started working after college to fund her studies. She did not want to give up on her dreams... until one day when she met him... they met through family friends and fell in (what appeared to be) love.
After a few ups and downs, they decided to marry each other. Just the night before the families met, he called her to say that...* I can marry you only if you give up your dreams and become a homemaker. I can't marry someone who's not at home to take care of me and my family*. She said she'd care of all of it but didn't want to to give up on her dreams. He didn't budge. They fought for weeks about this. Things weren't the same any more. They knew something didn't feel right, but didn't break-up. Months passed in this on-off relationship. Eventually, she was too attached to let him go. She couldn't live in this confusion anymore. She had to take a call.
The call would be tough,but she had to choose. She chose him! All her dreams suddenly vanished like they were a mirage, and all she wanted to be was 'His wife'. I met her only once after her marriage. She had been married for three years then. Somewhere in a tiny corner of her heart she had a question - was it too big a price she had paid?! Her heart knew the answer but she was scared to hear it from others or acknowledge it. So she shut all people out (including her closest friends) who asked her to stand up for she wanted. I don't know how she is today.
I just wish my friend would have understood that she can be the sunshine in her life and lives of people who give her wings to fly... #createyourhype#folkscenery#mystopover#fatalframes#moodygrams#yourshotphotographer#exploreyourcity#leagueoflenses#visualseduction#createscenery#wanderingwomen#womenwhotravel#tlpicks#visualambassadors#pretty_shotz#creative_moodysquares#moody_tones#moods_in_frame#artofvisuals#sky_captures#traveltheworld#travellingtheworld#seetheworld#wandermore#travelstoke#amazing_shots#heavenly_shotz
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