How to change the fate?
Who wants to change a destiny must change himself/herself and his/her character. Fighting the fate is meaningless. Our destiny reflects our inner state, our ultra deep emotions. If a person tries to go against fate, he can get even more problems and incurable diseases.
We spend a tremendous amount of energy on the fight against destiny when we try to change the situation on the external level, without changing anything inside. Changing your destiny for the better and not changing your character at the same time is an attempt to go against the Divine will and deceive God. Fighting fate leads to an increase in pride.
There are three behaviors. You can get annoyed, offended, hate and do nothing. The second model is to actively act while being irritated, angry and offended. And you can actively act while keeping good nature inside.
Inside we must have acceptance and harmony, and outside we every day with joy and patience cultivate our human “I” and transform the world around us. This is the best model of behavior with which you can really change your destiny for the better.
Lazarev Sergey Nikolaevich